lilD is taking 30 days to see if you can really use Tinder for more than a hookup! Was his face really the problem?
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Today was a great day! It was warm outside, so it was definitely the perfect time for a late lunch date on the patio. This Tinder Guy looked great on paper.
Supervisor at a factory. No kids (waiting on marriage). Doesn’t smoke (not even weed). Doesn’t drink. Vegan (and I’m transitioning from vegetarian to vegan). WHAT?!?!!? I could go on…
He got there before I did. Stood up immediately, kissed my hand, pulled out my chair. Complimented me on how pretty I looked. He was dressed well, and smelled amazing. This man was the textbook definition of a gentleman.
He made me laugh talking about telling his family he was vegan, and how his grandma cussed him out because he couldn’t eat her famous sweet potato pie anymore. I totally get that; I’m from Louisiana and my family has NO respect for the fact that I don’t eat meat.
When the check came, I pulled out my wallet (I wasn’t sure if we were going Dutch or not). Even if he paid for it, I was gonna leave the tip. Tinder Guy said “no no Sweetie, you don’t have to pay for anything around me.”
Excuse me!!!!
Then he walked me to my car, closed the door for me, and waited for me to pull off.
Why was this date so perfect???
Well….it wasn’t.
Everything was beautiful….except his face. He wasn’t just okay, or sort of cute. He was unattractive. Like on a scale of 1-10, he was a 0.
I only swiped right because he literally had every other quality I was looking for, and I wanted to see if our personalities were compatible, would I look over the fact that I wouldn’t kiss him in the mouth.
Well call me what you want, but I can’t. Maybe if it was dark, and I had three shots of Crown Apple, he would have been a 2. But I could barely look him in the face because I just wasn’t attracted to him. I feel bad about it, but it is what it is.
On to Day 26….
