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After being in a relationship for so long, there is absolutely nothing wrong with being single for a while. That’s the perfect opportunity for you to learn more about yourself, even thing you didn’t realize while in a relationship.

Learn to be Single

If you are the type of person that likes to stay in a relationship, take the time to learn how to be single. Treat yourself by pampering, taking yourself to dinner, and just doing for you.

Learn your likes and dislikes

There are times that we are so use to being in a relationship that we don’t really know what we actually like or dislike about relationships. This is the time to fully understand what irks your nerves and what makes you happy.

Your likes and dislikes are also a part of knowing what you desire in a significant other. You don’t want to keep picking the same type of people and ending relationships due to the same issues.

Love Yourself

When you’re single, this is the perfect time to learn to love and appreciate yourself. When you know how to love yourself, you can show others how to love and treat you.

If you don’t know how to love and respect yourself, then how can you expect someone else to. Understand what you will tolerate and what you won’t tolerate. No need to put up with foolishness, especially since you don’t have to.

Learn to Masturbate

Masturbating allows you to understand your body. What turns you on? Where are your hot spots?

No one truly knows your body better than you. There’s nothing wrong with knowing your body inside and out. You will appreciate it in the long run, especially when you finally decide to get back on the dating scene.

Learn how strong you are

Your strength is what helps you get through many trials and tribulations. You have the ability to learn your strength and your resiliency. Everything starts and stops with you. If you don’t take care of your responsibilities, it will not happen. You have to learn to take care of yourself without depending on anyone but you.

Appreciate being single. Don’t try to rush into dating without taking the time that is needed to understand who you are. You are your own best friend first.

Father and son standing on train track with trumpet

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I think this is vital to learn the most about yourself before you hop into a relationship

Courtesy of Baller Alert

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