#12 Gentlemen first
If he always goes first — in line, into the car, through a door — then you can likely imagine you won’t be a priority in the bedroom.
#11 No laughs
Does he seem to lack a sense of humor to match your own? Things can get messy (as they do in life), so it’s best to be able to laugh at things together. If you can’t find laugh together, you can’t have a good time together anywhere.
#10 Girl, interrupted
Does he always interrupt you, not giving you the opportunity to even finish a sentence? It’s a typical sign of a bad listener, and a bad listener is not someone whose focus is on the other person — whether it’s in a conversation or in bed.
#9 The Ex-files
He talks about how his ex was in bed. He talks about his bedroom stories from the past. In general, he talks about his ex quite frequently. If you’ve encountered any of these aforementioned situations, then chances are he’s just not ready to have fun with someone else.
#8 He won’t stop talking
… about how good he is in bed. This is never a good sign! He shouldn’t have to compensate.
#7 Save the last dance
If he can’t dance, he just doesn’t have the rhythm. It’s usually fine if he can’t dance to the latest Nicki Minaj hit, but if he can’t slow dance, he can’t get the tempo right no matter what.
#6 Too much of a kiss
There is just too much tongue. An overenthusiastic and sloppy kisser is likely to conduct himself the same way in bed.
#5 No connection
Does he have a difficult time looking into your eyes and engaging in physical contact with you at the same time? If he can’t do both simultaneously, there is likely an intimacy issue that will not resolve itself in the bedroom.
#4 Grooming guys
If you noticed that he’s spending more time making sure every hair is in place, then you may not have such a good time together after dinner.
#3 One too many drinks
If he has the habit of consuming more than two drinks a night — on any given night you’re with him — then you’re likely not going to have as much fun as you would otherwise before the alcohol.
#2 Too much fragrance
If you’re wondering what all that cologne is covering up, then you’re probably right to go with your gut. An extensive cologne collection and heavy spraying all day long may indicate some sort of insecurity regarding his natural scent, or an overly self-obsessive attention to his grooming.
#1 Workspace, homespace
If his bedroom looks like a traveling businessman’s hotel room, then likely work stress will weaken his focus on you and what the bedroom is all about.