Its like an epidemic … these celebrities giving their man the OK to cheat. Mo’Nique spoke with True Exclusives recently on the secrets to having a successful “marriage”. Rather interesting topic for her to give advice on since she has been open and out about an Open Marriage NOT being a deal breaker.
According to Love B. Scott
Her secret? Honesty — even if it means admitting you want to have sex with someone else…Mo’Nique further explained why she feels couples should give each other a ‘pass to cheat’.
“The person that you stood up and you said ‘for better, for worse, sickness and in health, richer or poorer’ you took those vows in front of the universe. If you don’t live by them, then maybe you shouldn’t have taken them. And when you say ‘a pass to cheat’—see, when you’re with your best friend and you say to your best friend: ‘I’m having these feelings about this person, sexually, and I want to share it with you.’ When you’re best friends, you can have those open and honest conversations. Often times, people cheat because of something they’re not getting. But when you have open and honest dialogue, and you say we’re just human beings. And all these people on the face of the earth, do you think my eyes won’t ever say ‘he’s fine’ or ‘she’s attractive’?”
“Now, if you want to go further with it, let’s be honest enough to have those conversations. What is it about that person that you find that you want to sleep with? Because they may give you something that I’m simply not willing to do. And if that’s the case, how can I be mad? Because I’m not going to do it. Should I deprive you of not having it? That’s when the relationship is real.”
Probably why she has been married I don’t know about your definition of an “expert” but someone who don’t know the difference between Open and Closed… faithful and unfaithful can’t give no advise on how to keep my man.
