It’s not new that we sometimes like to blame the opposite sex for why we can’t seem to find or keep a good man. But there comes a time where we have to be big girls, and take responsibility for the things we do, the way we act and the things we say that can hinder a good man from coming our way. Let me help you out with that…
Details | Madamenoire
1. You want to argue about everything all of the time.
Some women are addicted to drama. They don’t know how to function in situations where no one is yelling or throwing someone’s clothes out the window. I’ve said this before, but there’s a lot of healthy relationship stuff between getting freaky and fighting. Save the drama for the Melanie Fiona videos. As I get older one of the most surprising things I’ve learned is that the best relationship I’ve ever had has been the most boring. By boring I mean I’m not checking his phone for text messages because there’s nothing to check for. He doesn’t do Facebook and our biggest arguments are over breakfast cereal. Our best moments are spent watching Netflix and talking smack about the drama in our friends’ relationships.
3. Your man makes or breaks your life.
There has to be more to you than finding or getting a man. We all have that friend that every five seconds is texting or calling her “Bae” or gets ghost on Twitter until there’s some update like “Bae brought home shrimp for dinner. I <3 my Bae!” So what is it exactly that YOU do? I worry about men who want their woman’s whole world to revolve around them, but I worry more about women who allow it. Most good men want a woman who’s bringing more to the table than free time for him and a vast knowledge of the lives on Real Housewives of Atlanta. You don’t have to choose between having a man and having a life.
Get the other 5 reasons HERE.
Like Power 107.5 on Facebook to stay updated with the latest breaking, entertainment news and original interviews!
- First Legal Gay African Ceremony Takes Place Makes HIS-tory!
- Should “A Different World” Make A TV Comeback?
- LL Cool J & Brad Paisley Shake the Music Insdustry With Controversial Song!
- GET PAID ON TAX DAY
- Suspect Wounds 14 After Going On Stabbing Rampage At Lone Star Community College!
Can’t Find A Good Man? Here’s 10 Reasons It’s Really You…Not Him was originally published on zhiphopcleveland.com